My brother who I love for God, below there is a true story told by my friend Rajendra he heard directly from the owner of the story, which in this story you will get some tips are very easy, but hard to implement, you might say "Loh how come so he tips very easily, but it is difficult to be implemented? " Yes indeed so in reality except for God's people who are permitted to do so.
Previously you must know that every word "I" is ditujukkan to my friend who told this story so I said not me, but my friend is Rajendra. Here's her story and congratulations contemplate ...
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Thanks to the grace of God Almighty, I reunited with his servant on this one. He was a leader who always protect, provide guidance, encouragement, inspiration, ideas and fresh ideas. He is a leader who is capable of moving hundreds of thousands of his men. He is a teacher who has the ocean of knowledge, which is always ready to be pulled up by their children and like nothing ever runs out.
He currently has a wide range of business areas, such as supplier and distribution equipment and health products, dozens of acres of ponds, dozens of acres of fields, dozens of boarding houses, shop, booth sales at the mall, apartments and others. Once I tried to count, his earnings could reach $ 1 billion per month. A great achievement for me and most others.
The meeting between me and him who (will) tell me under this happened a few years ago, when his income was around Rp 200 million per month. For me, this figure was already not playing fierce. I deliberately did not mention his name, because I publish this story has not received permission from him. We take wisdomnya yes.
One day, there was a dialogue between me and him in the foyer a hotel in Bandung. I remember, he advised that he was pleased to be asked. If asked, it will be described at length. But if we remain silent, that he was going to "sleep". So I think to always engage him in conversation. Ask what can I ask.
Until finally I asked the origin. "Sir, you currently can not you call it a success. Least more successful than others. Then according to you, what is the secret of your success?"
Not unexpectedly he answered this question seriously.
"There are four things you should look," so he began his explanation.
FIRST SECRET
"First. Do not forget your parents, especially your mother. Due mother was the one who gave birth to us all on this earth. Starting containing 9 months more, it is very heavy. Mother gave birth to us with difficulty, pain, lives at stake. Paradise under mother's feet. Mrs. Pengeran like katon (God's visible).
Many people now are wrong. The teachers and clerics kissed her hand, while her mother never had. The teachers and clerics worshiped and dielukan, given the millions of dollars donated materials, home made, and yet she was left alone at home or given material but very little. Many people are teachers or kyainya the pilgrimage, when she had not yet dihajikan. That's the upside.
Message Prophet: Your mother, your mother, your mother ... then father and teacher.Blessings God depends on the blessing of both parents. Collect a thousand clerics to pray. So much prayer mustajabah mother. "He took a breath for a moment.
SECRET SECOND
"Then the second," he continued. "Multiply gives. Multiply charity. Allah promised to retaliate for any money that we spend it with a double. Alms able to beat the wind. Dole could beat iron. Alms cleanse treasure and our hearts. Alms deliver us from dangers. Allah may reward us with a charity windfall many, health, unavoidable us from danger, good family, knowledge, opportunities, and others.
Do not underestimate when a beggar came begging you. Because that's when you actually opened the door fortune. Give the beggar by providing a good and a great attitude. If you have paper money, better him with paper money, not coins. Chose the bills are still good, not the already disheveled. Hold it with two hands, then reached out with an attitude of respect if necessary, looking down (saluting). Beggars you give in this way, will terketuk his heart, 'There has never been one who gives and appreciate like this.' So come out or not, he will pray for you with an abundance of good fortune, health and happiness.
Many people mistakenly rejected beggar who came, some are even rebuked. The act was tantamount to closing the door fortune personally.
On another occasion, when I was walking around with him, he obviously practices what she's saying it. Giving a beggar with a bill of thousands were still good, and gave it with two hands with a slight bow. I saw the beggar was shining and how grateful.
THIRD SECRET
"God promises to give us the good fortune of the road unexpectedly," so he began his explanation for the secret of the three. "But few people know how to make it happen quickly? Most people just waiting. Fact that no way."
"Right in the Quran there is a verse which roughly means: Those who fear Allah surely held his way out for him and gave him a windfall from the street / door unexpectedly", (Surah Ath THALAQ 2-3) I replied . "
"Well, want to know how how to we get the fortune that unexpected?," He asked.
"Yes, how?" I replied. I think quite the devoted, running his commands and avoid His prohibitions, then God will send the good fortune that comes to us.
"Multiply helping people. If anyone needs help, if we meet people who need it, your immediate help!" His answer made me think hard. "When something like that, you become a windfall windfall for him. then certainly return is to Allah will give you a fortune unexpectedly well."
"While it is the rich?" I asked.
"Yes, although it's a rich man, one day he, too, need help. Probably lost his wallet, his car tires may leak, or anything. Then if you encounter it, and you can help, please help immediately."
"Although it's people pretending? Now a lot of people on foot, came to our house, pretending to ask for donations of houses of worship, or pretend not to eat, but it's just a sham. Contribution which is said to house of worship, in fact he feed themselves, "I asked again.
"Yes, even though people pretend it's just like that," he replied. "If you ask me, in fact he did not like doing the lying. Was frustrated because he could not work or do not have a job right. He was needed to eat, but had clogged his mind. Ultimately that's what he can do. Problems that later, leave it to God. Allah who judge his actions, and God's intentions and giving you reply. "
FOURTH SECRET
"Well, more interesting, here." I nod. Actually I do not think that my question was perfunctory fruitful answers so serious and long. Now living a secret, the secret of the four, as he said earlier.
"The fourth ya, Mas," he began. "Do not be playing with her."
"Heem ... this makes me think hard. What he meant. Did we make an appointment with a female friend, then do not keep it just us, or is do not let her wait? Like in the movies only."
"The point is this. You've got a wife, or husband. It is your life partner, both in times of trouble and happy. When you leave home to make a living, he's at home waiting and praying for your safety and your success. Besama He helped you when you are in trouble, mediocre income, food and clothes on their backs, she accompany you and support all your efforts to succeed. "
"So what?" I was anxious to know the rest point.
"A lot of people then when successful, a lot of money, have a position, and then married again. Or start playing a woman (or a man playing, for the women). Both married again openly, let alone secretly, it hurt spouse You. Remember, spouses who used to assist you in times of difficulty, support and pray for your success. success but when you get it, you leave it. Alternatively you menduakannya. "
Oh ... monogamy lesson ya, I thought to myself.
Admin: Before proceeding any reader may be astonished at the fourth point is that at first glance as if monogamy a true success story and a point, this is not true and that my response from this fourth point that we must know the rights of wives correctly so that their rights are not ignored because Most people who turned out to melantarkan polygamy is wrong and not in accordance with the Shari'ah prophet of Allaah wa sallam-who advocate for fair to all wives, so once again open at this point mean polygamy is not true / good, but that the reader knows that a wife has a right that must be given.
"A lot of people forget that. Soon're a big, lots of money, then look for another wife. Marry again. Houses ladder so chaotic. When feeling abandoned, their spouses become willing. Eventually the money runs out for a fee here and there. Much people who fall for these things. She forgot that her partner was actually involved had a hand in his success, "he continued.
This is I proved myself, every time I came to his house in Waru Sidoarjo, I see he has 1 wife, 2 sons and 1 daughter.
The conversation was closed when guests come later ....
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